Regarding invitation emails - I believe they are generated in the PHP source code and we don't have access to that anymore. I don't see a way to easily mod it with jQuery. You would have to use code on your own server, like I mentioned in the reply I made to your Discussion on here.
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I answered your question on the discussion you linked to.
Best wishes,
"TJ"