I joined the marketing site but waiting for them to approve me. I can always use advice on marketing. I am a novice:)

I wish there was a way to see who someone's friends are. Normally, sites have that feature so that you can view someone's friends!

YES! question.. When my member instant message, I cannot see they are trying to message me. There should be a flash or bell lol.. noise etc that will alert you when someone is trying to chat with you.